When You Think Happiness...

For one of my classes here at the seminary, we had to write a "Rule of Life" for one of our assignments. A rule of life is just basic outline that helps you grow spiritually, academically, personally etc. I put mine together and realized how much I truly appreciate simplicity. There are few key things that get me through my week and contribute to my overall happiness. I think it's a good idea to reflect on these things. I decided to blog about a few things that make me genuinely happy. These are in no particular order. Hopefully this will encourage you to make a small rule for yourself, or at least think about and appreciate the day-to-day simple things that make you happy.




1. Kyle and I choose to make the bed everyday and I love it. I'm a little obsessive when it comes to this. There is something about making the bed, and knowing that it's made, that kick-starts my day.

2. Showing kindness to people. Kindness, everyday. Choose to be kind.

3. Choosing to live out the life I dream to live. I enjoy beautiful things -- date nights, tea parties, dressing up, decorating, garden parties. Sometimes my friends make fun of me for this type of stuff, but I decided I am just going to live and do what I always dreamed of living and doing. Why not have a tea party with your girly friends? Why not dress up and have a fancy dinner for fun? Why not?

4. Praying for people in the world -- especially those who provide my food for me. I am intentional about praying for these people everyday. I also pray that God would provide for them and show Kyle and I ways that we can intentionally provide for them.

5. Being generous. Kyle and I are in no way "making bank." But, God provides generously for us. He gives us just what we need each month. I've been amazed at God's provision. Having to depend on God, for literally every penny, gives me great joy. In turn, we've given more now than we ever have -- more time, more meals, more money. As Anne Frank would say, "No one becomes poor by giving." We've gained great joy by giving.

6. Journaling. I try to record something positive from the day and keep track of the ways that God is providing for us. It's amazing to go back and see God's hand in motion in miraculous ways.

7. Book Club. I got invited into this group upon coming to seminary. I've never been a part of a more beautiful, diverse group of women. So many gifts, so many laughs. Honestly, the group is rare. I've never been a part of anything like it.

8. My husband, in general. Oh, it is love. Time with the hubs is the best. He loves me so well and goes out of his way to make everyday a special day. Older people often marvel when we act gaga around each other, then roll their eyes and say "Oh, newlyweds." Honestly, though, every married couple should remember their newlywed days and strive to keep qualities of them. I am no counselor, but I think we would have a lot more merry marriages if people remembered being newlyweds.

9. Successful people. I love studying successful people and discovering the way they made it. I recently watched an interview with Taylor Swift (oh, quit judging.) She's a jewel. Go listen to "Tim Mcgraw" and that's what started it all for her. The point is, it was so in her element. Maybe that's what we need to do to be successful, just stay in our element. Perhaps we spend too much time impressing people.

10. Singing. Hey, I sing every morning in front of my mirror while getting ready. I even dance a little, too. Honestly, though, they say singing helps reduce depression, anxiety and gives you fresh air and your lungs.

Coulda, Shoulda, Woulda

So, tomorrow I am turning 23 and I've realized that I've gone through some major life events in the past year.   First, I graduated college. Then, I got married. Now, I am in graduate school. Whoa, wait!!! What's next? And don't say babies. I am on the "track" for my life and I love the direction it's going (although it's going kind of fast!). However, I often like to think of things that I might have otherwise pursued. And, boy, my life would be so different if I would have pursued those tracks. Here are just a few careers I might have chased if I didn't end up where I am today. Or, they are tracks that I probably would have never actually taken, but think they'd be fun.

• Hairstylist - This is serious, ya'll. I sometimes seriously think about going to beauty school after seminary just because I love cutting Kyle's hair. Plus, I would get to talk to people all day and hear their stories. And cutting hair is a very practical skill. I also appreciate how trendy hairstylists are. 
• Interior Designer/Decorator - Omgeee. I love decorating. I love mixing patterns and neutrals. I love sewing custom pillows to spice up a place. I love painting spaces and renovating. I love thrifting. If, I had a show on HGTV it would be called "Makeovers with Molly."
• Design Magazine Editor in Chief - Um, how fun would it be to write a letter to your design audience every month with your big ole' signature and photo in the magazine? So.awesome. Sometimes I practice my signature for this very purpose. 
• Elementary School Teacher - I always wanted to be Miss Honey from Matilda. And kids. Geez, you have to love them. 
• Wedding Planner - I loved my own and would do it all again. Give me a business with the country-chic girls in the South and I'm good to go. 
• Counselor - I really love the idea of Marriage and Family Counseling. That's a tough path, though. I don't think I have the emotional energy to cope. 
• Adviser - I would love to work at a school and act as an adviser for students. I feel like I am good at organizing things and helping people put meaningful things together, such as, their life plans ;). 
• Wall Paint Name-r - Do you ever wonder how paint colors get their cool names -- "Bahama Blue" or "Playful Coral?" Somebody has to come up with them...just sayin'.
• Barista - Knowing how to make all types of coffee/fun-drinks is appealing to me. Who wouldn't want to be a barista? Except for those cranky customers might be the only downfall.
• Pastor - But, ultimately, I want to be a pastor. A trendy one at that. Want to know one of my biggest hopes? Someday, I want to have an office for students/congregants/or whoever to come by and sit and talk. I want my office to have a nice loveseat with zebra pillows on it. I want my office to be adorned with pictures, lamps and candles. And get this, this is my favorite part. I want to have a tea kettle readily available with hot water so my guests who stop by can have tea/cocoa upon their arrival. Then, we can sit and chat for awhile. And, I might be able to get a little bit of work done, too ;). Here's to the future...cheers!